HELPLESS 2 HELP!

It makes me truly sad knowing that and seeing someone I love with all of my Heart continually run down a path of destruction to their own mental & emotional health. No matter how much I try to help from what I've learned from my own experiences and out of love, no matter how many times I give my shoulder to lean and cry on, no matter what I say it's ALWAYS wrong, and no matter what I do it's NEVER good enough. My Heart tears when they refuse to learn from their own mistakes and when they refuse to change the parts of their own personality and thinking that is their own Worst Enemy. It makes me sick to have to watch this happen because a few ASSHOLES from the past abused them SO BAD, hurt them SO HARSH, n Forced them to become someone that they were COMPLETELY NOT so that now they're thinking tells them that if they change ANY part or piece of themselves then that would equal them going out of their way to change for somebody else and after the past they made a Promise to their self that they won't EVER change a Damn thing about themselves for ANYONE, EVER again until th day that they Die. I see all this and am helpless to help. I'm Powerless to help somebody who doesn't want to be helped. Inside my soul I bleed tears for this Special Person. :(